I find that curious. She nearly forced me to take piano, ballet, trumpet, gymnastics...but never art lessons. When I joined the art club in jr high, she was uninterested.
That which she lived and breathed 24/7, so much so that I think she was annoyed by the need to sleep. That thing, she did not share with me.
Was it because she didn't want to seem pushy? She talked often about how horrid her childhood was, how much the people in it belittled her interests, told her that they were stupid, and forced her to do what they felt was appropriate.
Was it because she felt that it was not a worthy pursuit? This I fear most. The idea that my mother felt that her talents, her passion, were not worthy in a material world. If she felt that way then she had a low opinion of herself. I recall her saying she did not enjoy being a wife, did not enjoy motherhood. She encouraged me to "play the field" rather than settle down, and discouraged me from becoming a mother. She encouraged me to go as far as I could in school, which I did, finishing graduate school. Was art part of what she did not want for me?
She talked about going to art school, and how her plans were thwarted each time she tried. Well, I call bullshit. I worked my way through college without a husband, supporting three children.
The truth is, I'll never really know why. She isn't here to ask. My father is gone. Her entire family is gone. There's nothing to do but speculate, and hope that whatever her reasons, she was happy with who she was, as I intend to be.